the Chris brown and Rhianna abuse incident in my eyes is a bunch of bologna! but it does bring some important issues to the surface. for example the abuse cycle; Rhianna exhibits how most women go back to their abusers. all it takes is one apology, one kiss, one touch and everything is back to normal. this phase is known as the "honeymoon" it only lasts for a short while and then the abuse occurs once again. but this digs deeper then Chris brown and Rhianna, why do people abuse?...why do victims go back?...how do you cope with being abused?......people may stay in abusive relationships because that's all they know. the victims parents were abused or someone in their family was abused and they felt like "that's just the way it is"....or they might stay because their abuser is their sole provider or their abuser wasn't always beating they a**, and their staying for "the change"....whatever the case may be my advice and personal opinion is to LEAVE! if he hits you once and gets away with it he'll most definitely do it again:-(
You are speaking with the voice that says high self-esteem and confidence. Teaching that to other women will break the cycle.
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